Having been in a 12 year relationship with a narcissist, and now 6 years alone, I can catalytically say I’ve zero desire to return. I’m MUCH happier now. There’s many reason reasons why being alone is ...

However narcissists don’t want accountability. They want free reign to do as they please. Because they feel superior, and entitled. Plus they don’t care how their actions affect others. As long as ...

Narcissists spend a lifetime mimicking emotions and feelings. They become so skilled, they fool close ones for years. Most let their masks slip from time to time. Especially with those closest to them ...

To Feel Alive Narcissists clunk around in protective suits of armour. Shielding themselves from their emotions. Narcissists want to avoid pain, often because they’ve felt so much in their past. So ...

Reactive Abuse Some narcissists like to bait someone into attacking them. Then play the victim. A favourite tactic is the use of subtle digs, designed to wind them up. The narcissist looks for a chink ...

You’re Not Listening To Me In my experience, narcissists say ”You’re not listening to me”, when you’re not agreeing with them. You could be listening to EVERYTHING. And respond appropriately. But they ...

You’re often left scratching your head, wondering if you’ve been put down. Or if you imagined it. And if you say anything, they will of course deny it. This causes confusion, on top of the negativity ...

You Won’t Find Anyone Better Than Me Narcissists say this to sow seeds of doubt in your mind. As they hope they drained your self esteem to the point where you believe this. The narcissist hopes that ...

Mirroring To Appear “Normal” Most narcissists are aware that they’re different. Yet they want to fit in, and be liked and admired. So they mirror people who have the qualities they want, but don’t ...

Some narcissists benefit from people feeling sorry for them. They empathise with the narcissists brokenness. And the narcissist encourages this by playing the victim, making their partner feel ...

Narcissists spend a huge amount of time and energy creating and nurturing their superior false self. Which protects them from feeling weak and vulnerable. But sadly for them, it’s just a veneer.

Check Their Social Media Checking a narcissists social media after a split, is a bad idea. Because nothing good comes from it. And there’s likely to be negative repercussions. Narcissists are master ...