“Here’s Exactly How to Fix the Feeding Battle” If every feeding feels like a struggle — the fussing, the pulling off, the tears (maybe yours too) — take a breath. You’re not failing, and your baby isn’t refusing you. Something deeper is just out of sync, and it can be fixed. Start by going back to the basics: 1. Position first. Bring your baby’s tummy close to yours — nose to nipple, chin touching your breast. Comfort creates calm. 2. Check the latch. A deep latch should feel like gentle tugging